TED talks quotes : Wednesday Wisdom

Wednesday Wisdom

If you’re not prepared to be wrong, you’ll never come up with anything original. – Sir Ken Robinson

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE TED talks quotes : Wednesday Wisdom Wednesday Wisdom TED talks quotes Sir Ken Robinson Simon Sinek Shawn Achor Maya Angelou David Carson Brene Brown Alain de Botton   If you hire people just because they can do a job, they’ll work for your money. But if you hire people who believe what you believe, they’ll work for you with blood and sweat and tears.
– Simon Sinek

Vulnerability is our most accurate measurement of courage.
– Brené Brown

What we’re finding is it’s not necessarily the reality that shapes us, but the lens through which your brain views the world that shapes your reality. And if we can change the lens, not only can we change your happiness, we can change every single educational and business outcome at the same time.
– Shawn Achor

TED talks quotes : Apply it to you

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE TED talks quotes : Wednesday Wisdom Wednesday Wisdom TED talks quotes Sir Ken Robinson Simon Sinek Shawn Achor Maya Angelou David Carson Brene Brown Alain de Botton   You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off you.
– Maya Angelou

You have to utilize who you are in your work. Nobody else can do that. Nobody else can pull from your background, from your parents, your upbringing, your whole life experience.
– David Carson

When you look at the moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the moon a bit more often.
– Alain de Botton

Peace is up to you :0 Good luck!

Role of congressman : Humble yourself

What is my value?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Role of congressman : Humble yourself Role of congressman my role Humble yourself Humble hide fix it Brene Brown     What am I? Why do I exist? What is my work? What is my mission? An incident that make us think occurred in Korea. There were floods in various parts of the city. But four provincial member go to foreign country for study for 10 days. Stops are ParisAvignonNiceFirenze and Milano and etc. They got a beating by a group of public opinion. Because their province had the worst flood damage in 22 years. Role of congressman Korean comes to fore. They were expelled from their party. I think it may be a little harsh. But Humble yourself. 

Humble yourself

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Role of congressman : Humble yourself Role of congressman my role Humble yourself Humble hide fix it Brene Brown     They took part in recovery efforts with heavy expressions. “When I come to visit the damaged sites, I am more sorry for victims” and “I accept the reprimand humbly and participate in restoration until recovery is fully achieved.” Another one said “I should’ve given it more thought. I will show you my sorry” Can you believe it? Is it a real heart? I think it’s a problem in any country. How do we go through? I think it may be a chance. If you hide a problem, it will explode! Don’t hide, just fix it! It is a real humility. Just saying that “I’m sorry” is not humility. It doesn’t have any meaning. It is not a fundamental solution. We can change the world.

“What you can’t say owns you. What you hide controls you.” – brene brown

Peace is up to you :0 Good luck!

The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal

Why is Shame important?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

Do you know about ‘Daring Greatly : How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead’? It was written by Brene Brown.

If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend that you see this video.

[TED] Brene Brown: The power of vulnerability

This is a video about shame that I am interested in these days.

Let’s talk about Brene Brown’s research.

She first started to research about ‘Connection’. Why? If you studied social welfare for 10 years, We all comes down to ‘Connection’ in the end.

If people are asked about ‘Connection’, what people said? People talk about ‘Disconnection’. Shame is a fear of disconnection. Here comes shame.

Brene Brown studied about shame for 6 years. She divide people into two classes. There are the people who have a strong sense of love and belonging and the people who really struggle for it. They believe they’re worthy. It is a key point. But It is very hard for me. So I’m interested in ‘Shame’. You know why?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

She named people who believe they’re worthy as ‘Whole-hearted’. She find out about the difference deeply. The research is going on, so.

But Vulnerability and Shame is more important than I thought. Vulnerability is a key point for personal relationships. Also, the company is where people gather. Vulnerability can change one’s life forever. Likewise, vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change. So it is popular.

Do you know Covert narcissism?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

These people look very kind and humble. But in inner side, they are no different from Overt narcissism that we usually call Narcissism. But they are very shy. Why? Covert narcissism is deeply related with ‘Shame’. These days, I think my problem is related with covert narcissism. Here comes shame. I feel something connected.

Get back to Brene Brown. She find out relationship between shame and guilty. Shame is a focus on self, guilt is a focus on behavior. Shame is “I am bad.” Guilt is “I did something bad.“

Erikson‘s Stages of Development.

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

Do you know where these concepts are used? It’s a Erikson‘s Stages of Development.

  • In early childhood(1-3 years), There are conflict between ‘Autonomy’ and ‘Shame’.
  • In play age(3-6 years), There are conflict between ‘Initiative’ and ‘Guilt’.

If you don’t develop in during this each time, you will experiences these problems.

Here was my research.

 I will be more fully thinking.

I’m determined to change me. I hope you walking down your path.
 I expect you to do your best. 🙂