Letters to Me : It is who I am #3

Long time no see

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Letters to Me : It is who I am #3
Are you OK? I wanted to ask you about it. But I don’t want to ask what happened.

Long time no see. How’s it going? Meanwhile it seemed that many things happened. Are you OK? I wanted to ask you about it. But I don’t want to ask what happened. But you’re already doing that to yourself, right? I know that I can’t stop to compare with others. HAHAHA.

It is who I am

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Letters to Me : It is who I am #3
I don’t have confidence in myself, you know?

Am I greedy? I suppose so. And I don’t have confidence in myself, you know? I’m not good with being vulnerable. Maybe that’s why I am a softy. In the past, I had much to say. I want to look better but I am not good. I did’t do anything and I just were waiting. Why am I so stupid now? HAHAHA.

Even so, I never stop a moment

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Letters to Me : It is who I am #3

I tried and I will keep trying. But it is often not easy. I want to succeed. I want to achieve. I have nothing so I desperately want it. Looking back, I think I didn’t wish hard enough. But I tried. I want to try with all my heart, with all my soul, with all my mind and with all my strength. I just don’t want to regret. I just want to be praised by my family. I just only want that.

There is still many road to walk. Everything is your choice. I live with the consequences, so must you. Let’s do this now and never regret it. You and me could be great. We need to have more confidence. Good luck!! 🙂

The flow of Western philosophy : Simply Focusing on Keywords

The beginning of Western philosophy

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The flow of Western philosophy : Simply Focusing on Keywords

What do you think about ‘Philosophy’? I thought… philosophy is really cool. I want to be a philosopher. But…. you know. It’s very hard. I can’t understand anything. Wow… This philosophy books went over my head. After that, I was no longer interested in Western philosophy.

I think ‘philosophy’ is to learn how to think logically. Kant also made a similar remark. Are we thinking really? Have you ever thought? Let’s find out what ‘thinking’ is.

Socrates : Real philosopher

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The flow of Western philosophy : Simply Focusing on Keywords

The beginning of the philosophy is the Socrates. PreSocratic philosophers focused on the natural world. But Socrates, sophists focused on man. Everybody knows Socratic method. It is very famous. Many entrepreneurs take advantage of it usefully. Because it go to the heart of the human nature. It can be applied anywhere.

It is like that Socrates defined philosophy as “to love wisdom”. The word philosophy comes from ancient Greece. ‘Philo-’ means ‘to love’. ‘sophy’ means ‘wisdom’.

He sacrificed his life to protect values. He verified again and again. “How to live well?” He asked again and again. What is ‘well’? What is ‘death’? Hmm… What is the best value? Can we compare values? He always talked with people on market and on street anywhere.

What’s the end of the conversation? It always resulted in Aporia. ‘Aporia’ means a dead-end alley. Finally they told Socrates. “At first I think I knew that but now I don’t know anything at all.” By doing this, Athens think Socrates have evil magic. So kill him. But Socrates were not afraid at all. Because he decided it upon his life. He didn’t chicken out. For this reason, Socrates is called ‘Real philosopher’ Everybody realized philosopher is a great man.

Socrates & Plato & Aristotle

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The flow of Western philosophy : Simply Focusing on Keywords

The amazing thing is that Socrates wrote nothing. Plato went apprentice after him at 20 years old. Socrates had many students, but Plato was his best student. Surprisingly, Socrates appear mainly in the Dialogs of Plato. Also Aristotle was Plato’s student. This three people made big changes.

“The saftest general characterization of the European philosophical tradition is that it consists of a series of foodnotes to Plato” – Alfred North Whitehead <Process and Reality : An Essay in Cosmology>

Therefore Socrates, Plato and Aristotle were the most influential philosophers in Western philosophy. What do you think the flow of western philosophy is? We focused on the fundamentals. What’s the purpose of your reading? It is the most important. I want you to learn ‘How to think’. I think This is the philosophy. 🙂

 

South Korea, New Year’s Day : Generous & Colorful

Korean New year’s day

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE South Korea, New Year's Day : Generous & Colorful

Do you know Korean traditional holiday? In Korea, there are four traditional holidays: New Year’s Day, Hansik, Dano, and Chuseok. Funny thing is, the highest number of deliveries in Korea are made during New Year’s Day and Chuseok. Many people only see each other twice a year during the New Year’day and Chuseok. I love this holiday because I don’t go to school for a long days!! It is most nearly five days. New Year’s Day is the end of January. Chuseok is the beginning of October.

New Year’s Day in the world

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE South Korea, New Year's Day : Generous & Colorful

The Chinese New Year is a 15-day holiday. It is also called Spring Festival. The redness are all over China. Why? Because red lantern is a symbol of good luck and fortune. Japan’s New Year’s Day is お正月. In Vietnam, Lunar New Year is widely known as Tet(Tết/節). The day before, everyone is busy to start cleaning the house in the morning. The house is full of energy. Songkran(สงกรานต์) festival is to celebrate Thailand’s New Year. It is like a Water Festival. The festival is full of vigor.

Traditional Festival foods

Funny thing is, People fret over the holidays about putting on the pounds after so many festive meals. It is very colorful. Of course, we will eat lots of delicious food! Picture is good than text.

I see you 🙂

 

How to write Planning document : Successfully Fascinatingly

“Manager James, Write a planning document by tomorrow”

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE How to write Planning document : Successfully Fascinatingly
“Manager James, Write a planning document by tomorrow”

A ‘planning document’ is always hard to me. Have you ever experienced that situation? James may thought ‘What should I do now? Oh, No! Maybe I could spend the night. It’s horrible.’ And James really stayed up all night. He gave his sincere planning document to Boss proudly. But in five minutes later, he got out of the room with a long face. Why? He got his fingers burned. Boss said “For what?  Stop! In a word? I do not feel it, not a bit! So what? So you think I should do this?” If I were him, I’d be out of my mind.

I write this column on the basis of this book. But this book ‘Standard procedure of the project‘ is only Korean edition. It‘s sad. This book is very pragmatic. It is made up of 4 parts. Here it is! ‘For what?’  ‘Stop! In a word?’ ‘I do not feel it, not a bit! So what?’ ‘So you think I should do this?’ It is an application of 4 MAT(Dr. Bernice McCarthy (USA)). Now, Let’s start!

“Why are you do that? For what?”

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE How to write Planning document : Successfully Fascinatingly
“Why are you do that? For what?”

Why is very important. We must prepare to this question. It’s a little bit too harsh. If we can live through this, we can live through anything. In a word, you can success when you are not working as planner. Everything is consumer-friendly. ‘Why do they need to do this?’ We must focus this! Do you know 5 Whys? The technique was formally developed by Sakichi Toyoda who is the founder of Toyota Industries. It said to us “When you are facing problems, try to repeat ‘Why?’ five times. If you do, you can see the real cause and do something real.” This is the first step.

“Stop! In a word?”

He may have a hot temper. In a word, it is a ‘Concept’. This one sentence must be written in their mind. It’s a good topic for conversation. “Why are you do that?” “Beause It’s meaningful!” “I want to see how Ive grown.” It can also be comforting. It sends message that It is not your fault. “Aha! It was not my fault… I’m relieved. If I just simply fix it, everything will be fine.”

“I do not feel it, not a bit! So what?”

It is important to draw a picture in opponent’s head. So far, analysis and concept is really good. But we still did not come up with any real things. Now all we have to do is to show things seemed to run already. Let us know the dialogue between moms in advance. Show twitter and facebook page in advance. All of this are predicting.

“So you think I should do this?”

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE How to write Planning document : Successfully Fascinatingly
“So you think I should do this?”

This is a finishing blow. Hearing about all these, he still hesitate to give a definite answer. Here, we need numbers. “What would happened if we did?60,000 students can see our brands. 180,000 people can change their life. It can add $10 million to us. It can be a successful transaction each other. Now, you can get out of the room satisfactorily.

Did you read well? Now is the time to initiate real planning. It will make you the best. Good luck to you. 🙂

Are you ready for the last day?

Today is the last day of this year.

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Are you ready for the last day?

Are you ready for the last day?

I have mixed feelings. Hmm… I have some pleasant memories and some sad memories. I’m very vulnerable. I have a good time with friends. We had a hearttoheart talk about our way. I shed many tears. Is this sympathy? I’m very vulnerable. But I’ll never give up. Get a grip, gird your loins, make your case and quit whining.

What is our way?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Are you ready for the last day?

What kind of person are you? These days, this question was very important to me. What do you think of these days? I was wondering.

The way I walk is to pursue ‘Growth‘. Next year, I have many things to want to do. What I want is ‘Driving force‘. What I want is ‘Counseling‘. I want to change. I have to change.

Otherwise, I’ll lose me…

I want to change. I have to change.

Happy New year!!!!! 🙂

Talent or effort? ‘Grit & Growth Mindset & Deliberate Practice’

Talent or effort?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Talent or effort? 'Grit & Growth Mindset & Deliberate Practice' talent Growth mindset Grit effort deliberate practice Carol Dweck Angela Duckworth Anders Ericsson

What do you think is more important thing for success?

I first think talent is not changed. So I focused on effort. But when compared with other people, It brings me down. So I think there is a problem in my talent. However, I didn’t stop my effort. Sometimes I cried and sometimes I was happy. This is my story.

How about you? 🙂

Grit : the power of passion and perseverance

I will tell you the latest research. Do you know ‘Grit‘?

Let’s see this TED video. Angela Duckworth [Grit : the power of passion and perseverance]

What is the criteria that predicts success ? It wasn’t IQ.

So, what is it? It was Grit. What is Grit?

Angela Duckworth said “Grit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals. Grit is sticking with your future, day in, day out, not just for the week, not just for the month, but for years, and working really hard to make that future a reality” in TED.

What’s more surprising is the reason why Angela Duckworth started this research. It’s some sad. She always heard of the same thing from her father. “You have no talent!!!” “You have no talent!!!” “You have no talent!!!”

How awful would that be…?

Growth mindset

How could we build Grit?

Angela Duckworth suggests that ‘Growth mindset‘ is a one of best ideas. This is an idea developed at Stanford University by Carol Dweck It is the belief that the ability to learn is not fixed, so you can change with your effort.

Let’s see a Video. Carol Dweck, “Developing a Growth Mindset

Do you want to succeed?

First I ask you. What does ‘Success’ mean to you?

Success is exciting. Me too. So, we would have to make an effort. Just trying hard?

Deliberate practice

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Talent or effort? 'Grit & Growth Mindset & Deliberate Practice' talent Growth mindset Grit effort deliberate practice Carol Dweck Angela Duckworth Anders Ericsson

[Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise] is a book of K. Anders Ericsson. He said “Not just trying hard, important thing is a deliberate practice“.

The keyword are Grit, Growth mindset and Deliberate practice. I wish I can help your future. 🙂 See you later.

The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal

Why is Shame important?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

Do you know about ‘Daring Greatly : How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead’? It was written by Brene Brown.

If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend that you see this video.

[TED] Brene Brown: The power of vulnerability

This is a video about shame that I am interested in these days.

Let’s talk about Brene Brown’s research.

She first started to research about ‘Connection’. Why? If you studied social welfare for 10 years, We all comes down to ‘Connection’ in the end.

If people are asked about ‘Connection’, what people said? People talk about ‘Disconnection’. Shame is a fear of disconnection. Here comes shame.

Brene Brown studied about shame for 6 years. She divide people into two classes. There are the people who have a strong sense of love and belonging and the people who really struggle for it. They believe they’re worthy. It is a key point. But It is very hard for me. So I’m interested in ‘Shame’. You know why?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

She named people who believe they’re worthy as ‘Whole-hearted’. She find out about the difference deeply. The research is going on, so.

But Vulnerability and Shame is more important than I thought. Vulnerability is a key point for personal relationships. Also, the company is where people gather. Vulnerability can change one’s life forever. Likewise, vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change. So it is popular.

Do you know Covert narcissism?

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

These people look very kind and humble. But in inner side, they are no different from Overt narcissism that we usually call Narcissism. But they are very shy. Why? Covert narcissism is deeply related with ‘Shame’. These days, I think my problem is related with covert narcissism. Here comes shame. I feel something connected.

Get back to Brene Brown. She find out relationship between shame and guilty. Shame is a focus on self, guilt is a focus on behavior. Shame is “I am bad.” Guilt is “I did something bad.“

Erikson‘s Stages of Development.

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE The Power of Vulnerability and Shame(Brene Brown) : Be strong when you reveal Whole-hearted vulnerability Shame research overt narcissism narcissism Initiative guilt Erikson Covert narcissism Connection Brene Brown Autonomy

Do you know where these concepts are used? It’s a Erikson‘s Stages of Development.

  • In early childhood(1-3 years), There are conflict between ‘Autonomy’ and ‘Shame’.
  • In play age(3-6 years), There are conflict between ‘Initiative’ and ‘Guilt’.

If you don’t develop in during this each time, you will experiences these problems.

Here was my research.

 I will be more fully thinking.

I’m determined to change me. I hope you walking down your path.
 I expect you to do your best. 🙂

Let’s make Christmas cake!!!

Let’s make Christmas cake!!!

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Let's make Christmas cake!!!

Now, Christmas is coming soon in one month. There are multi-colored pretty lights dangling big tree and couples will walk arm-in-arm down the street.

On such a nice day, I’m wondering if we should try a gift to family or lovers. Gift is to make a pretty cake for them. Therefore I will introduce you about the Christmas cake to make at home. There are many kinds of cake such as sweet potato cake, chocolate cake. Among these by far the greatest is strawberry cream cake.

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Let's make Christmas cake!!!

From now on, let’s learn how to make strawberry cream cake.

First, Cake sheet

First, ingredients of cake sheet are flour (Soft flour) 70 g, three eggs, sugar 60 g, butter 20 g, 18 cm round cake mold, hand mixer and parchment paper.

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Let's make Christmas cake!!!

 

  • In advance Eggs are removed from refrigerator an hour ago at room temperature.
  • Melt the butter and sift flour. Add the eggs and sugar on the bowl and whisk the cream.
  • When whipped cream become ivory color and firm, add sifted flour and mix evenly with melted butter.
  • Make a sheet with parchment paper in the 18cm circular frame and then pour the batter.
  • Dab three times up and down and preheat oven to 170℃ and then bake for 25 minutes.
  • Cool completely cake sheet and cut a top of cake flatways, and cut horizontally in half again.

Second, Toppings

Second, ingredients of toppings are strawberries 500 g, cream 300 cc and 2 tablespoons sugar. Ingredients of syrup are water 60 cc and 2 tablespoons sugar.

  • Whisk the cream firmly with sugar, cut the white part of strawberries and cut in half lengthwise. Boil syrup with water and sugar and cool it.
  • Apply syrup moistly to two sides of cake sheet that we already cut.
  • Put the bottom of sheet cake on plate and brush top with whipped cream.
  • Put a round cake mold and put strawberries around the dish so that you see cross section of the strawberries.
  • Fill the middle part with whipped cream and remaining strawberries.
  • Lastly fill it with cream to the top and place cake sheet over cream.
  • When It held its shape in refrigerator, remove a cake mold, spread evenly on top with whipping cream and decorate with strawberry and herbs.
  • It is complete!!!

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Let's make Christmas cake!!!

With the year coming to an end, make a cake and other tasty dishes. 🙂

Langston Hughes(1902~1967) ‘I Dream a World’ : Of such I dream, My World!!!

Langston Hughes(1902~1967) ‘I Dream a World’

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Langston Hughes(1902~1967) 'I Dream a World' : Of such I dream, My World!!!

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Langston Hughes(1902~1967) 'I Dream a World' : Of such I dream, My World!!!

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Langston Hughes(1902~1967) 'I Dream a World' : Of such I dream, My World!!!

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Langston Hughes(1902~1967) 'I Dream a World' : Of such I dream, My World!!!

 

 

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Langston Hughes(1902~1967) 'I Dream a World' : Of such I dream, My World!!!

I dream a world where man

No other man will scorn,

Where love will bless the earth

And peace its paths adorn

I dream a world where all

Will know sweet freedom’s way,

Where greed no longer saps the soul

Nor avarice blights our day.

A world I dream where black or white,

Whatever race you be,

Will share the bounties of the earth

And every man is free,

Where wretchedness will hang its head

And joy, like a pearl,

Attends the needs of all mankind

Of such I dream, my world!

What does ‘Peace’ mean to youLook for your answer

It is spring again. The earth is like a child that knows poems by heart.” – BohemianAustrian poet Rainer Maria Rilke (1875–1926)

Have a good day 🙂

Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day : the land of the morning calm

Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day : the land of the morning calm

Korea is called ‘the land of the morning calm’. Korea is so silent in this morning. Why? Today is the Doomsday that determines the fate of 600,000 people.

12 years will be determined by a single day. Or maybe most of their life is determined by the day. They comfort each other in saying “That is not everything”.

It is a very important day for Koreans.

 

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day : the land of the morning calm

The police are taking a friend who are late. And all who see him are clapping loudly.

 

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day : the land of the morning calm

In front of test sites, Every Junior come out and They are cheering passionately.

 

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day : the land of the morning calm

When you see it, It’s a little bit funny.

 

A STEP TOWARDS PEACE Today is College Scholastic Ability Test day : the land of the morning calm

Mothers always have a hard time.

I’m sorry even to comfort them. The students study too hard and Mothers are too dedicated. I just hope they will be a nice newcomer. 🙂

Do you have any words for this friends?

I’ll be expecting you.